Q.   My boyfriend goes to Ibiza with his friends in a month and I'm scared he'll cheat.  He assures me he won't but all his friends are single and I don't want them to encourage him.  Help.


A.   Singles holidays get a lot of bad press but a lot of people just go there to drink and dance.  Look at this as a test of your relationship.  It's a test for both of you, your trust and his faithfulness.  Is it his mates you don't trust or him?  You need to decide where you're going to draw the line and what happens if he crosses it.  It doesn't have to be a heavy, dramatic ultimatum, just a statement of fact.  If he's assured you he's not going to cheat, then you're just going to have to take his word for it.