Q. I'm so bored of sex with my boyfriend. I roll my eyes behind his back and don't even try to orgasm. It's the same every time, and it only changes if I change it.
A. A great sex life needs care, communication and compromise. Do you care enough to make it better or are you seeking an excuse to leave? If you do care, speak up and give him a chance to care too. Men struggle to hear what we don't say when the blood's in their head - once it's in their penis they've got no chance. Own up to being half the problem. Try 'It's hard to say what I want so I get angry with you for not just knowing.' Pay attention to the three C's and satisfaction will rise like a golden souffle.
2 years ago