Q. I split up with my boyfriend but I still love him. He continues to visit me and I always end up having sex with him - then he doesn't want to know me until the next time. Should I break things off or try to get him back?

A. You say you split up with this guy? Hmmmm..... It sounds more like you started but never quite finished the job. As for him, he only wants you when he 'feels the urge', so why would you even want to get him back? You say you still love him. Sorry, but you don't - you still want love. And you won't find the love you deserve until you boot this selfish phoney out of your life.