A. Sounds like a frustrating dose of performance anxiety (PA) and despite what Rachel says to Ross in Friends, it is that common, it does happen to every guy and it isn't a big deal. The best way to cope with PA is to take a few deep breaths and remind yourself of a few things:
- She may have a heavenly body but she's just a girl lying in bed with a guy
- Be honest
- You're in perfect working order
- While your penis behaviour is a big deal for you, your tongue and fingers are just as important to her, so use them.