Q. I used to be a size 18, but have recently lost loads of weight and love my new size 12 figure, only my boyfriend says I'm not the woman he fell in love with. If he prefers me fat, maybe I should go back to how I was. What do you think?

A. No, no, and triple no!! Whether you're a size 18 or a size 12, as long as you're happy and healthy, what's the problem? He should be congratulating you, not persecuting you. Having said that, if he genuinely has a physical preference for larger women and doesn't fancy the new you, there really is no compromise. Sadly, it might be time to get a new man to go with the new body. Good luck.