Q. I've just started seeing a guy who's 22 years older than me (he's 45). Everything's great but sometimes he can't get an erection. He says I'm gorgeous and it's his problem, but I want to help. What can I do?

A. As blokes get older, their penises aren't always the battle-ready privates they once were. They can occasionally keel over due to stress, tiredness or even the pressure of a gorgeous younger woman paying them attention. Don't make too much fuss - just keep on kissing and stroking. But, if it becomes more than occasional, you could gently suggest he gets checked out - just to make sure everything is in good order.