Q. Going down on a woman has always been my biggest turn-on, but I'm a bit grossed out by how wet my new girlfriend gets. When she orgasms, a lot of liquid comes out and I think she might be wetting herself a bit. It's really off-putting.

A. It's called female ejaculation - not all women do it, so if you haven't come across it before it can be surprising. But off-putting? If you orgasm while you're in her mouth, does she complain about the amount of fluid you ejaculate? Make the most of it, its a rarity and most men would kill for a girlfriend who gets so turned on.