Q. I really love my boyfriend of one year, but I've begun to fancy another man I've known for several years. I've tried to stop thinking about him but I just can't. And he texts to say he thinks of me too. What should I do?

A. When a woman's imagination strays, it suggests something is not right between her and her partner. Sometimes, instead of facing the problem, she seeks an escape route - often a new guy or an ex. This is almost always a bad idea. The only way to discover how you feel is to do the brave thing - take time on your own, away from them both. Let your heart and your mind meet in private and hear what they're trying to tell you.