Q. I'm used to relationships where sex every day is the norm. My new man's happy with once a week or less but it's not enough for me. Sex makes me feel attractive and safe. How can I make him see I need more without sounding insecure?

A. But you are feeling insecure. The truth is usually the best place to start. Sex might make you feel safe and wanted, but it's not the only ingredient in a successful relationship. Think about other activities that are physically intimate - massage, sharing a show, watching TV naked under a blanket together. Be creative - taking the pressure out of sex could restore the fun in it.