Welcome to my agony column, created specifically for those who are in stale marriages, or are the third party in a relationship, who may have problems or questions about affairs, illicit encounters or flings.
I hope to help everyone with sensible, informed advice based on many years of experience.
Your questions can be about absolutely anything, from emotional problems, logistical issues, hiding the affair, moving on with the affair or any sexual issues you might be experiencing.
Please feel free to email me direct on
I look forward to hearing your questions and will reply as soon as I can.
I hope everyone who emails me will be happy to reproduce their problem online - anonymously of course, no one will ever know your identity - and that way they can help others in the same situation as themselves.
Can't wait to get started on your problems very soon xxxx
Thanks for following my blog :) xxxxx
1 year ago